Fifteen Guided Lessons
All fifteen conversations expanded into lessons with the teaching points, questions, and next steps already organized for you, so you are never improvising.
For parents of young women heading out on their own.
You've Had the Easy Conversations. Let Me Help You Teach the Hard Ones.
You do not have to figure out how to teach personal safety on your own. The Complete Action Program takes fifteen situations she is genuinely likely to face and turns each one into a guided lesson you work through together, with a real incident to review, clear principles, a how-to demonstration, or something practical to do.
Instant access · Video training built in · 60-day guarantee
15Guided
Lessons
Lessons
7Video Lessons
I Teach
I Teach
4Bonus
Chapters
Chapters
3Printable
Checklists
Checklists
50+Page
Program
Program
I'll Guide You Through It
Telling her to be careful is not teaching her. The Complete Action Program walks you through it situation by situation, so the conversations become understanding, practiced responses, and real capability.
And when she leaves, you know you did more than tell her to be careful.
How This Is Different
Most parents cover some of this. Almost nobody tests it.
The gap between what she knows and what she can actually do under pressure is what this program closes — over fifty pages with the full video course built in.
Having the talkFifteen topics you know you should raise
The Complete Action ProgramFifteen lessons taught in full, with the principle behind each one and the words to use
Having the talkYou describe what she should do
The Complete Action ProgramSeven video lessons I teach myself, plus real-world incident footage, sitting inside the lessons right where you need them
Having the talkShe listens. Nothing gets tested.
The Complete Action ProgramA practice session she actually runs. The door, the tool on the clock, the defensive response, her night routes
Having the talkYou hope some of it lands
The Complete Action ProgramYou find out on the spot which parts she can actually do, while there's time to fix it
Having the talkIt fades in about three weeks
The Complete Action ProgramShe leaves with three printable checklists, habits she has already run, and a first-72-hours plan
Having the talkShe knows what you're afraid of
The Complete Action ProgramShe knows what to do about it
Run It However Fits Your Family
One file, and it works four different ways. Every video link has a QR code printed beside it, so the program works exactly the same whether it is in her hands or on a screen.
Print It
Take it to any print shop. The whole program is in your hands and every video still opens from the QR code beside it.
On a Phone
Tap any link and the video plays. Good for the checklists and for looking something up in the parking lot.
On a Tablet
The smoothest way to run it. Reading and video in one place, on the kitchen table, between the two of you.
On a Computer
Bigger screen, easier for two people to watch at once. Good for the evening you sit down and work the drills.
No platform to log into. No password to remember. No course that disappears when a subscription lapses. The program is the file, and the file is yours to keep.
Everything Inside
Video Training Built In
See actual incidents unfold, watch focused instruction, and use step-by-step demonstrations when showing the skill is more useful than describing it.
Victim or Victress
A critical mindset lesson that helps her decide in advance that she has permission to protect herself, before she ever needs it.
Four Action Bonuses
Guided exercises for room and door security, her Everyday Equalizer, the Basic Defensive Response, and walking safety, so the most important lessons move from understanding to doing.
Readiness Tools
Her First 72 Hours plus the College Readiness, Walking Safety, and ABCD Threat Recognition checklists reveal what is already handled and what still needs attention.
The Timing Drill, On Video
This is what a QR code opens. Six minutes and forty-two seconds of my wife Lauren running the drill start to finish. Every video opens the same way, from a link or a QR code. No account, no login, no app.
How long it takes
An evening for the fifteen lessons. About ninety minutes for the practice session, run in order, with a session plan that puts it in sequence. Ten minutes with the checklists before she goes. None of it has to happen in one sitting, and a partial run still puts her ahead of nearly every other student on her floor.
"We went through the whole guide together, discussing each section, and it helped me learn things she'd been struggling with that I didn't even know about. I highly recommend this guide for every young lady and her parent."— Erin S.
Built around the freshman transition, but useful for any young woman preparing for college, a first job, a trip without you, or her first place away from home.
Trevor Thrasher
Green Beret · SWAT · Counter-Terrorism
I spent more than three decades across Army Special Forces, law enforcement and SWAT, and counter-terrorism work for a U.S. government agency, including work alongside allied special-operations units overseas. I've operated in some of the world's most dangerous cities without the military or a larger police force behind me. I've trained more than 30,000 people, including thousands of women in personal protection, and I'm the Chief Training Officer and an owner of 88 Tactical.
That's my past, and it's not really the point. The truth is I'm a husband, a father, and a business owner now, and I don't spend my days preparing for violence anymore. Neither do you. Neither will she. What all those years actually bought you is knowing what to leave out: which parts hold up under stress for someone who doesn't train every week, and which parts are only there because they look good in a class. That's what's in here.
Build the Capability Before She Leaves.
Private instruction with me runs $200 an hour. The Complete Action Program is $37, and it is yours to keep, print, and come back to for the next four years.
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